Today I was watching Modern Family, which is the most hilarious show. It is just so genius the way the writers have developed each individual character as well as the way each couple interacts with each other. I was watching the episode, "Good cop, bad dog" when Claire and Phil switch roles of who plays the good cop and who plays the bad cop to their kids, also Cam is sick and Mitchell has to decide to take care of him or go to a Lady Gaga concert. As I was watching the section of Cam and Mitchell, it made me think of one of Aaron and I's premarital counseling questions, "How do you like to be taken care of when you are sick?" It was good for us to think about what each one of us is like when we are sick, and also, what we expect from each other when we aren't feeling well. It got us talking about expectations and the way each of us feel cared for. I think we all like to feel taken care of at times. But my favorite thing about the episode was this quote from Gloria at the very end. So wise. Maybe you can learn good things from T.V.
“Maybe we are the way we are because of the people we are with, or maybe we just pick the people we need. However it works, when you find each other you should never let them go.” – Gloria, Modern Family
